3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Buy A Home (And One Why You Should)

Today I’m going to tear apart a long-told story. It’s a story about how everyone must hunker down into a two-story home with a white picket fence and a wrap-around porch, as soon as possible.

Throughout our youth we are constantly told to follow a certain path: Grow up, go to college, graduate, get a job, get married, buy a house, have kids, live happily ever after. But we all know this isn’t a linear path, and life has a funny way of throwing curve balls when we least expect it.

I’m in my early 30’s and still haven’t bought a home. (I do own real estate, but we’ll get to that another time.) I’d like to say this was entirely by design, but it wasn’t. After graduating college I was dealing with student debt, job relocation, helping to support my mother, and the idea of starting my own business.

Boy, am I happy I put off the “American Dream!”

Buying a home can be a good thing, but it can also be another shackle holding you back from pursuing your dreams.

Here are 3 reasons why you should hold off on the largest purchase of your life.


Your 20’s are filled with the excitement of the unknown (well, maybe your entire life is). You’ve just finished close to 20 years of schooling, you’re heading out into the workforce, and you’re on your own for the first time, unless you’ve moved back in with mom and dad. (As of 2014 over 32% of Millenials are living with their parents.)

Not only is this a time for excitement, it’s a time for decision-making. Do you stay in your college city? Do you move back home? Do you follow your dream of chasing the endless summer?

Buying a house at this point in your life certainly does one thing; it plants your butt firmly in one location and gives you a heck of a lot of responsibility.

You: But Jared, I can sell the house if I choose to move.

Me: Well, yes. But then you have to deal with closing costs, paying a broker, etc. I’ve known people who have moved several times shortly after buying homes, and they took it on the chin with fees and expenses. In fact, one former colleague of mine was relocated several times over the span of 5 years. Each time, they purchased a home in their new location, and each time, they had to sell shortly after. It’s not a fun experience to go through.

You also have to deal with maintenance, property taxes, insurance, your roof developing a leak, and that damn kid down the street who keeps egging your house!

Do yourself a favor; keep your butt mobile and your options open!


As I hinted at earlier, when you purchase a home, you are making one of the largest purchases of your life, and you are taking on a mountain of debt. If you read my previous post on debt, you know that I view debt as a sure-fire way of hindering your future progress.

Debt is a shackle that will hold you back from taking flight and will impair your ability to make decisions.

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When you have 30 years of debt payments (i.e. – a mortgage), you can’t pack up and leave for that trip-of-a-lifetime to Thailand.

Your debt-to-income ratio is also important to consider (see explanation and info here). When this ratio gets too far out of whack, it will become more difficult to obtain a car loan or get approved for a credit card, etc.

If you already purchased a home, don’t worry; there are a couple of steps you can take to minimize the negative impact your debt will have. I’ll be posting an article about this in the coming weeks, so stay tuned!


Whether you know it or not, there has been a long-standing debate on the financial benefits of buying a home vs. renting.

The recession in 2008 that sent the real estate market swooning was painful for those that owned property. But even over the long term, the benefits of owning property can be debated/disputed.

This video (Is Buying A Home Always Better) by Sal Khan of the “Khan Academy” gives a run-down of why he isn’t a fan of buying a home. (By the way, Khan Academy is an amazing organization dedicated to free learning. Check it out if you have time!)

We’re not going to go deep into the numbers in this blog post, but if you watch the videos, you can see there are many more expenses than people think.

Just to be clear, I don’t believe owning real estate is a bad thing. I am actually a big fan of owning rental properties to help you build up passive income and wealth. But that isn’t what we’re discussing, is it?

The numbers don’t lie. Buying a single-family home is not as great an investment as some would have you believe.


Having said that… (Short video of Larry David and Jerry Seinfeld – Watch for a laugh!)

Not all decisions in life should be driven by numbers; you need to consider your quality of life as well.

If you are looking to get married and start a family, you and your spouse might prefer hunkering down somewhere and planting your roots. There is nothing wrong with this.

Just make sure that when you’re buying a home, you are doing it for the right reasons.


I know that some people reading this right now won’t agree with me.

The fact is you CAN make money through buying a single-family home. Plenty of people are profiting by flipping homes or buying foreclosures at a great price, and there are a number of other strategies that are beneficial, as well.

However, the vast majority of people don’t get into these types of activities, nor would I recommend them to just anyone. There is risk, and you need to know what you’re doing. If you are considering them, make sure you do your homework!

I hope this has helped you think differently about buying a home. If you have any thoughts or comments, please connect with us through our social media pages on Facebook and Twitter!

Capably Yours,

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